How to access your database Remotely
If you want to modify your database so you can do it from your cpanel >> phpMyadmin.If you do not wish to use phpMyadmin and you want to use different Mysql Application to connect so you can go with second step.
To connect to your mySQL database remotely, you will need to login into your control panel and go to your “Remote Mysql” area in cPanel. Once there, you can grant remote access permission via the Add Access Host: section. You can either enter the IP address you will be connecting from or you can just enter % as a wildcard which will enable remote access permission to anyone who has the correct login info.
When connecting, you should use the login and password that you created and granted access to your database via your mySQL manager in your control panel.
You can use http://xxxx.com/ to connect your databases
Configuration Settings:
Host = (use the server IP address)
Database name = (cpanelusername_databasename)
Database username = (cpanelusername_databaseuser)
Database password = (******)
MySQL Connection Port = 3306
TCP or UDP, either is fine.